Is It Cruel to Leave a Dog Alone Overnight?

Is It Cruel to Leave a Dog Alone Overnight?
  • 16 Nov 2025
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Leaving your dog alone overnight isn’t automatically cruel-but it can be, depending on your dog’s age, breed, health, and past experiences. Many people assume that if a dog sleeps through the night, they’re fine. But sleep doesn’t mean comfort. Dogs aren’t wolves. They’re pack animals wired to stay close to their family. When you leave them alone for hours, especially in silence and darkness, they don’t just "get used to it." They often feel abandoned, anxious, or scared.

What Happens When a Dog Is Left Alone Overnight?

Most dogs can handle being alone for 8-10 hours if they’re healthy adults and have been trained properly. But that doesn’t mean they’re happy. A 2023 study from the University of Auckland tracked 120 dogs left alone overnight using motion and sound sensors. Over 68% showed signs of stress: pacing, whining, excessive licking, or chewing on furniture-even if they didn’t make noise. Their heart rates stayed elevated for hours after their owners left.

Young dogs under two years old? They’re not built for long stretches alone. Their bladders can’t hold it. Their brains are still learning how to self-soothe. Senior dogs with arthritis or kidney issues? They might need to go out every 4-5 hours. Leaving them alone overnight could cause pain, accidents, or even urinary tract infections.

Signs Your Dog Is Struggling

It’s easy to miss the subtle signals. Your dog might not bark or scratch at the door. But look for these quiet signs:

  • Excessive drooling when you’re gone
  • Chewing on their own paws or tail
  • Shaking or trembling even when it’s not cold
  • Accidents in the house after being house-trained
  • Refusing food or water when you’re away

These aren’t bad habits. They’re cries for help. Dogs don’t act out of spite. They act out of fear.

What About Crates and Dog Beds?

Some people think putting a dog in a crate or on a dog bed overnight makes it safer. But a crate isn’t a punishment-it’s a den. If your dog chooses to go in there, it’s comforting. If they’re forced in and whine or try to escape, it’s a prison.

Same goes for dog beds. A soft, warm bed in a quiet corner helps. But if it’s in a cold, drafty room with no windows or familiar smells, it’s just a mat. Dogs bond to scent. If your bed or clothes are nearby, they’ll feel safer. Try leaving an old t-shirt with your smell on it near their bed. It’s not magic. It’s biology.

A dog rests comfortably in a cozy crate with a sweater and nightlight, creating a safe, warm space.

When Is It Okay to Leave a Dog Alone Overnight?

It’s usually fine if:

  • Your dog is over two years old and has been gradually trained to be alone
  • They’ve had a long walk, play session, and potty break before bedtime
  • They’re not showing any signs of anxiety
  • The environment is safe, quiet, and temperature-controlled
  • You have a way to check on them (like a pet camera with two-way audio)

Even then, it’s not ideal. Dogs don’t need to be alone for 10 hours straight. If you work late or travel often, consider a dog sitter, a doggy daycare that offers overnight stays, or a trusted neighbor who can check in.

What to Do Instead

You don’t have to feel guilty. You just need better options.

Option 1: Dog Sitter or Pet Taxi
Many services in Auckland now offer overnight pet care for under $40. A sitter doesn’t need to stay the whole night-just come by once or twice to let your dog out, give water, and offer a little cuddle. That’s all it takes to reset their stress levels.

Option 2: Create a Safe Zone
Set up a small, secure area with their bed, water, a few toys, and maybe a white noise machine. Keep the TV or radio on low. Play recordings of your voice. Some dogs respond well to calming music designed for pets-like the playlists from the Canine Noise Phobia project at Massey University.

Option 3: Train Them Gradually
Start by leaving your dog alone for 30 minutes while you’re home. Then an hour. Then two. Slowly increase the time. Always leave them tired and calm. Never say goodbye with drama. Just walk out quietly. Come back calmly. Over weeks, their brain learns: "They leave. They come back. I’m safe."

A split-image showing a sleeping dog and abstract anxiety swirls, with a hand offering comfort from the edge.

What Never Works

Don’t rely on these myths:

  • "They’re fine-they’re sleeping." Sleep doesn’t mean peace. Dogs can sleep while anxious.
  • "They’re dogs-they’re meant to be alone." No. Domestic dogs evolved to live with humans. Wild dogs hunt in packs. They don’t sleep alone.
  • "I bought a fancy dog bed, so they’re comfortable." A bed doesn’t fix loneliness. A voice, a scent, a presence does.
  • "I’ll just leave the TV on." Background noise helps-but it’s not the same as human connection.

Real-Life Example: Bella, the 4-Year-Old Border Collie

Bella used to howl for hours after her owner left for night shifts. She chewed through two dog beds, scratched the door, and had accidents every week. Her owner thought she was being "bad." Then they got a pet camera. What they saw: Bella would sit by the door for 20 minutes, then collapse on her bed, trembling. She didn’t move for three hours. Then she’d get up, pace, and start again.

They hired a part-time dog sitter who came at 10 p.m. for 15 minutes. Just let her out, gave her a treat, and rubbed her belly. Within two weeks, the howling stopped. The accidents stopped. Bella started sleeping through the night-not because she was tired, but because she felt safe.

Final Thought: It’s Not About Convenience. It’s About Trust.

Your dog doesn’t care if you’re busy. They care if you’re there. Leaving them alone overnight isn’t cruel if you’ve built a life where they know you’ll return. But if you’re doing it because it’s easier than arranging help, then you’re choosing convenience over connection.

Dogs give us unconditional love. They don’t ask for much. A warm bed. A full belly. A hand to hold. And the quiet certainty that you’ll come back.

Can a puppy be left alone overnight?

No. Puppies under six months old have tiny bladders and can’t hold it for more than 4-5 hours. Leaving them alone overnight risks accidents, dehydration, and severe anxiety. They need to go out at least once during the night. Set up a safe, confined space near your bed so you can hear them if they need to go out.

Is it okay to leave a dog in a crate overnight?

Only if your dog loves their crate and sees it as a safe space. If they whine, scratch, or try to escape, it’s not a crate-it’s a trap. Never use a crate as punishment. Make sure it’s large enough for them to stand, turn, and lie down. Always provide water and a soft bed inside. For overnight, check if they’re comfortable first.

What if I work night shifts and my dog is alone during the day?

Many people work nights. The key is routine. Walk your dog right before you leave, then again when you get home. Use puzzle toys or slow-feeders to keep them busy. Consider a dog walker who comes midday. Even a 20-minute visit can make a big difference. Don’t leave them alone for 12+ hours straight. That’s too long for any dog.

Can dog beds help reduce anxiety overnight?

A good dog bed helps with comfort, but not alone. A soft, warm bed in a quiet corner with your scent nearby can calm a dog. But if the room is cold, noisy, or isolated, even the best bed won’t fix loneliness. Combine it with white noise, a piece of your clothing, and a calm bedtime routine. The bed is part of the solution-not the whole answer.

Are some dog breeds more likely to handle being alone overnight?

Some breeds like Basset Hounds, Bulldogs, or Shih Tzus tend to be calmer and sleep more. But that doesn’t mean they don’t feel anxiety. Even a sleepy dog can panic when left alone. On the flip side, high-energy breeds like Border Collies or Australian Shepherds need more mental stimulation. No breed is naturally built for long, lonely nights. It’s about training, not breed.

Posted By: Aria Whitfield